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Differences Between Men and Women
The differences between male and female is very real and very deeply rooted in human nature and Human physiology.
People in relationships often have strong expectations that their partner will be just like they are: exhibit the same attitudes, values, perceptions and behaviors. However, we know that you will not change your partner’s attitudes and behaviors unless they themselves are motivated to do so. You are even less likely to change their basic gender characteristics. So it is very important to educate yourself as to the basic gender differences which exist between men and women, and accept the fact that the differences are there, they are real, and they are not going away. In this way you can learn to use the differences as a way to enrich your relationship rather than to damage it.
A. LYING
Men:
when men lie to women face to face, they get caught easily. Woman's super natural brain observes facial expression 70%, body language 20% and words coming from the mouth 10%. Men's brain does not have this.
Women:
women easily lie to men face to face. so guys, don't lie face to face.
B. SPEECH
Men:
Men use direct language.
Women:
Women use indirect language in speech.
C. HANDLING EMOTION
Men:
Men act a lot without thinking.
Women:
Women talk a lot without thinking.
D. LANGUAGE
women can easily learn many languages. But can not find solutions to problems.
Men:
Men can not easily learn languages, they can easily solve problems.
E. UNHAPPINESS
MEN:
If men are unhappy with their work, they can not concentrate on the relations.
Women:
If women are unhappy with their relations, they cannot concentrate on their work
F. ANALYTICAL SKILLS
Men:
Men's brains has a lot of space for handling analytical process. They can analyze and find the solution for a process and design a map of a building easily.
Women:
But if a complex map is viewed by women, they can not understand it. Women can not understand the details of a map easily. For them it is just a dump of lines on a paper
G. CAR DRIVING
Men:
while driving a car, men analytical spaces are used in his brain. He can drive a car fast as possible. If he sees an object at long distance, immediately his brain classifies the objects (bus or van or car) direction and speed of the object and he drives accordingly.
Women:
where woman take a long time to recognise the object direction/speech. Men single process mind stops the audio in the car (if any ), then concentrates only on driving
H. PROBLEM SOLVING
Men:
If a man have a lot of problems, his brain clearly classifies the problems and puts them in individual rooms in the brain and then finds the solution one by one. You can see many guys looking at the sky for a long time
Women:
If a woman has a lot of problems, her brain can not classify the problems. She wants some one to hear that. After telling everything to a person she goes happily to bed. she does not worry about the problems being solved or not
I. MULTI - TASKING
Women multi tasking process:
Women's brains designed to concentrate multiple task at a time. Women can watch a Tv and talk over phone and cook.
Men single process:
Men brains designed to concentrate only one work at a time. Men cannot watch TV and talk over the phone at the same time. They stop the TV while talking. They can either watch TV or talk over the phone or cook.
J. WHAT THEY WANT
Men:
Men want status, success, solutions, big process, etc...
Women:
Women want relationships, friends, family, etc...
Be sure to remember these differences when communicating about anything important, when expressing care and concern, and when solving conflicts.
People in relationships often have strong expectations that their partner will be just like they are: exhibit the same attitudes, values, perceptions and behaviors. However, we know that you will not change your partner’s attitudes and behaviors unless they themselves are motivated to do so. You are even less likely to change their basic gender characteristics. So it is very important to educate yourself as to the basic gender differences which exist between men and women, and accept the fact that the differences are there, they are real, and they are not going away. In this way you can learn to use the differences as a way to enrich your relationship rather than to damage it.
A. LYING
Men:
when men lie to women face to face, they get caught easily. Woman's super natural brain observes facial expression 70%, body language 20% and words coming from the mouth 10%. Men's brain does not have this.
Women:
women easily lie to men face to face. so guys, don't lie face to face.
B. SPEECH
Men:
Men use direct language.
Women:
Women use indirect language in speech.
C. HANDLING EMOTION
Men:
Men act a lot without thinking.
Women:
Women talk a lot without thinking.
D. LANGUAGE
women can easily learn many languages. But can not find solutions to problems.
Men:
Men can not easily learn languages, they can easily solve problems.
E. UNHAPPINESS
MEN:
If men are unhappy with their work, they can not concentrate on the relations.
Women:
If women are unhappy with their relations, they cannot concentrate on their work
F. ANALYTICAL SKILLS
Men:
Men's brains has a lot of space for handling analytical process. They can analyze and find the solution for a process and design a map of a building easily.
Women:
But if a complex map is viewed by women, they can not understand it. Women can not understand the details of a map easily. For them it is just a dump of lines on a paper
G. CAR DRIVING
Men:
while driving a car, men analytical spaces are used in his brain. He can drive a car fast as possible. If he sees an object at long distance, immediately his brain classifies the objects (bus or van or car) direction and speed of the object and he drives accordingly.
Women:
where woman take a long time to recognise the object direction/speech. Men single process mind stops the audio in the car (if any ), then concentrates only on driving
H. PROBLEM SOLVING
Men:
If a man have a lot of problems, his brain clearly classifies the problems and puts them in individual rooms in the brain and then finds the solution one by one. You can see many guys looking at the sky for a long time
Women:
If a woman has a lot of problems, her brain can not classify the problems. She wants some one to hear that. After telling everything to a person she goes happily to bed. she does not worry about the problems being solved or not
I. MULTI - TASKING
Women multi tasking process:
Women's brains designed to concentrate multiple task at a time. Women can watch a Tv and talk over phone and cook.
Men single process:
Men brains designed to concentrate only one work at a time. Men cannot watch TV and talk over the phone at the same time. They stop the TV while talking. They can either watch TV or talk over the phone or cook.
J. WHAT THEY WANT
Men:
Men want status, success, solutions, big process, etc...
Women:
Women want relationships, friends, family, etc...
Be sure to remember these differences when communicating about anything important, when expressing care and concern, and when solving conflicts.
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