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Why do people cheat on their partners? As a former world class f*ck boy and narcissist I am very qualified to answer this question. I was unfaithful in my last relationship for many reasons but there is one that was plain and clear. I was DEEPLY insecure. I was not secure in the fact that she loved me. Which would make sense because I was attracted to cold emotionally unavailable women, which she very much was. I always thought I was worthless, that she would eventually figure that out, and she would leave me. I always had that thought in the back of my head. “She is going to leave me. No matter how good I am, how hard I try, it will never be enough. So what does it matter” And after my session in therapy this weeks it makes a lot of sense why I believe that so deeply. My therapist asked me about the relationships in my family. He asked because I have had an extreme discomfort about being in a relationship, despite the fact I am in the best, healthiest relationship