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signs a guy is using you for sex
1. He Doesn't Care To Listen
Men with a priority of only getting laid, don't care about getting to know the real you. They're one and only motive is sex, and they want to take the quickest route to get there. So if you begin picking up on a lack of interest or feel as if there's some type of rush, chances are, he just wants sex.
2. He's Only Hits You Up At Night
It's funny how some guys are completely oblivious to their intentions. More often than not, if he tries to "slide into your DMs" or shoot you a call, usually sometime after 8pm- he's looking for a booty call. If a guy's truly interested in you, he'll actually make an effort in trying to talk to you throughout the day.
3. He'll Leave If You're Not Putting Out
If your put under the assumption that you owe him sex, then that's not the kind of guy for you or anyone at that. A real man wouldn't do this to you. They'd respect your boundaries, and wouldn't care less about the reward of sex. Ain't nobody got time for that.
4. Is He Taken?
Is there another girl? Why's he always on his phone? Could these rumors be true? When a guy hops from one woman to another; dating, hooking up, even marriage. They're not looking for "the perfect one", they're looking for the perfect sex.
5. He's Avoids Meeting Your Friends And Family
He avoids meeting your friends and family because he doesn't want to get to close. Meeting the ones dear to you is a sign of becoming more and a huge step in a relationship, which is the LAST this guy wants. To him, it's a waste of time. Time that could be used for achieving sex; not a relationship.
6. You Meet On A App
Yes, we've all seen the ad with the couple that matches then runs off and gets married. But let's cut the BS, people use it to hook up. He's just another guy using the app for what it is, not the exception. Don't sugar coat it.
7. Relationship Talk
Constantly changing the subject, leaves the room, or getting aggravated are all signs of rejection. All avoiding the idea of becoming that relationship you so desperately long for. Just take it as a no. If he keeps coming back to you, yet doesn't want the relationship, then he only wants sex.
8. He Refrains From Spending Money On You
Treating a women right can be expensive, don't get me wrong. But if he can't even buy you popcorn, then somethings up. Aside from being a cheapskate, it's rude. That just goes to show he doesn't want to pour money into you, let alone a relationship.
9. When You Deny Sex He Hounds You About It
Guys need to respect a woman's boundaries, relationship or not. It's also very important that you establish that with him, voice your decision. Guys without boundaries don't deserve a woman, period.
10. He Told You He Doesn't Want Anything Serious
In some cases, I hate to say, it's your selective hearing that gets in the way. The man clearly states what he came in for, yet you ignore that in hopes of changing him. There's more to a man beyond his physical appearance. The right guy is out there, you're just afraid of being alone or putting time and effort into finding him. Let him go, be patient, and the right man will come.
11. About Sex
This can be rather annoying. Especially when he crosses the line and brags, not only about your sex but sex with other women. It's disgusting and completely narcissistic. So let me tell you now, if you see this characteristic, tell him to go sleep with her because you're not falling for it.
12. He Leaves After Sex
Guys who desire more for a relationship are willing to hang around, even after "doing the deed". Guys who just want sex, however, don't want to spend more time than necessary. Once they've gotten off they're ready to bounce.
1. He Doesn't Care To Listen
Men with a priority of only getting laid, don't care about getting to know the real you. They're one and only motive is sex, and they want to take the quickest route to get there. So if you begin picking up on a lack of interest or feel as if there's some type of rush, chances are, he just wants sex.
2. He's Only Hits You Up At Night
It's funny how some guys are completely oblivious to their intentions. More often than not, if he tries to "slide into your DMs" or shoot you a call, usually sometime after 8pm- he's looking for a booty call. If a guy's truly interested in you, he'll actually make an effort in trying to talk to you throughout the day.
3. He'll Leave If You're Not Putting Out
If your put under the assumption that you owe him sex, then that's not the kind of guy for you or anyone at that. A real man wouldn't do this to you. They'd respect your boundaries, and wouldn't care less about the reward of sex. Ain't nobody got time for that.
4. Is He Taken?
Is there another girl? Why's he always on his phone? Could these rumors be true? When a guy hops from one woman to another; dating, hooking up, even marriage. They're not looking for "the perfect one", they're looking for the perfect sex.
5. He's Avoids Meeting Your Friends And Family
He avoids meeting your friends and family because he doesn't want to get to close. Meeting the ones dear to you is a sign of becoming more and a huge step in a relationship, which is the LAST this guy wants. To him, it's a waste of time. Time that could be used for achieving sex; not a relationship.
6. You Meet On A App
Yes, we've all seen the ad with the couple that matches then runs off and gets married. But let's cut the BS, people use it to hook up. He's just another guy using the app for what it is, not the exception. Don't sugar coat it.
7. Relationship Talk
Constantly changing the subject, leaves the room, or getting aggravated are all signs of rejection. All avoiding the idea of becoming that relationship you so desperately long for. Just take it as a no. If he keeps coming back to you, yet doesn't want the relationship, then he only wants sex.
8. He Refrains From Spending Money On You
Treating a women right can be expensive, don't get me wrong. But if he can't even buy you popcorn, then somethings up. Aside from being a cheapskate, it's rude. That just goes to show he doesn't want to pour money into you, let alone a relationship.
9. When You Deny Sex He Hounds You About It
Guys need to respect a woman's boundaries, relationship or not. It's also very important that you establish that with him, voice your decision. Guys without boundaries don't deserve a woman, period.
10. He Told You He Doesn't Want Anything Serious
In some cases, I hate to say, it's your selective hearing that gets in the way. The man clearly states what he came in for, yet you ignore that in hopes of changing him. There's more to a man beyond his physical appearance. The right guy is out there, you're just afraid of being alone or putting time and effort into finding him. Let him go, be patient, and the right man will come.
11. About Sex
This can be rather annoying. Especially when he crosses the line and brags, not only about your sex but sex with other women. It's disgusting and completely narcissistic. So let me tell you now, if you see this characteristic, tell him to go sleep with her because you're not falling for it.
12. He Leaves After Sex
Guys who desire more for a relationship are willing to hang around, even after "doing the deed". Guys who just want sex, however, don't want to spend more time than necessary. Once they've gotten off they're ready to bounce.
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