The reason why people double date in a Relationship is base on many reason. You might spent the whole of your life in a dating relationship hoping it will give birth to marriage. If your expectation does not come to reality it might be too late for you to secure someone to marry or who will marry you, especially ladies. It is sometimes risky to be faithful to one person in a relationship. Double dating your partner in a relationship, is like a vehicle with a spare tyre. When you are in your vehicle heading to a destination and suddenly, you notice one of your vehicle tyre is bad and there is a spare tyre, you pulled it off and get it replace and then you continue your journey. What a relieves it is. But supposedly you are not with a spare tyre, how disappointed it is. You might miss your apportionment. Here, the "spare tyre" is your secret lover, the "vehicle tyre" is your real know lover while the " destination" is the relationship goal ( marriage). In a real life situation, if you have a spare tyre and your real know love partner failed to achieve the goal of the relationship, it wouldn't seem too bad, its can be easily be replaced and life goes on. I'm not encouraging double dating neither advising you to double date I'm definitely against it but we have to call a spade a spade. The sweet aspect of double dating shouldn't be the fact to double date because the other side of it is not a something you should experience. A hurter who is after two animals will eventually loss both. Below are the reason you should not double date.
1. Double dating can put an end to sserious relationship. Maintaining a secret relationship can damage other relationship. I can tell a true life story of a girl whose name is Rita. Rita was into an open relationship with Samuel and They have been dating for years planning to get married. Rita was also having a secret relationship with many others. One day Samuel friend invited Samuel to his girlfriend birthday party and he honoured the invitation but to his greatest surprise, He caught Rita, his girlfriend red handed sitting on the lap of a guy at the party. This was how the relationship between Rita and Samuel ended till date after so many years.
2. Double dating can cause several damage on your self esteemed. I known of a girl call Sandra she have many boyfriends. During Christmas period, all her boyfriend gave her money for Christmas expenditures. When it was her turn to return the favour, she didn't know whom to go out with. Sandra would have,had herself splided if possible.
3. Double dating can cause deaths. No One like its when their feeling is being tempered with. I met a lady in the church laying a course at the alter. I excited her and she told me her story of how she was use and dumped by a guy. The guy left her to marry another girl after having 5 abortion for him. The consequences of the course could result to death. Here is another story, a guy was dating a girl in the higher institution. He paid the girl tuition fees from level 100 to 400. He was surprised to find out that the girl have been married with kids. During the her final paper she was been pour an acid and that was the end of her. The boy was caught on the act and was killed instant'
1. Double dating can put an end to sserious relationship. Maintaining a secret relationship can damage other relationship. I can tell a true life story of a girl whose name is Rita. Rita was into an open relationship with Samuel and They have been dating for years planning to get married. Rita was also having a secret relationship with many others. One day Samuel friend invited Samuel to his girlfriend birthday party and he honoured the invitation but to his greatest surprise, He caught Rita, his girlfriend red handed sitting on the lap of a guy at the party. This was how the relationship between Rita and Samuel ended till date after so many years.
2. Double dating can cause several damage on your self esteemed. I known of a girl call Sandra she have many boyfriends. During Christmas period, all her boyfriend gave her money for Christmas expenditures. When it was her turn to return the favour, she didn't know whom to go out with. Sandra would have,had herself splided if possible.
3. Double dating can cause deaths. No One like its when their feeling is being tempered with. I met a lady in the church laying a course at the alter. I excited her and she told me her story of how she was use and dumped by a guy. The guy left her to marry another girl after having 5 abortion for him. The consequences of the course could result to death. Here is another story, a guy was dating a girl in the higher institution. He paid the girl tuition fees from level 100 to 400. He was surprised to find out that the girl have been married with kids. During the her final paper she was been pour an acid and that was the end of her. The boy was caught on the act and was killed instant'
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