Have you ever come across or experience a situation whereby a woman wants to have sex but she still hesitate?
I'm only talking about the cases where the woman and the guy wants to have sex,but she still hesitate. Below are the reasons
1. Trust
Men are usually physically stronger than women. If a lady like a guy and want to have sex with him, she wait until she has most of he trust
2. Some women worry about a lot of things like; how early is too early for sex? Would he think I'm slutty/desperate if I have sex with him now? If I have sex with him and open the sex door, will he stop trying to get to know me and mostly focus on the sex part? Does he really like me or just pretends like he does to have sex? I should wait for sex to see if he'll stay around despite not getting sex.
Women worry about these things because they either happened to them in the past or have seen too many examples of it around.
3. Men, unlike women can't get pregnant. If it's a one night stand and the woman gets pregnant, her health is impacted significantly. There is a significant financial impact on the Woman, even if
4. When she feels like having sex with you but she still hesitate to, it could be Because you are not interested in her as persons, you just want to have sex. And women really don't appreciate that. They like being persons. And they like being treated like persons. They are not walking vagina's.
5. Sex is physically a bigger deal for women. During heterosexual sex, a part of the male body enters the woman's body. Letting someone enter your body is a bigger deal than entering someone's body.
6. Girls have the mindset that, after a guy sleep with them he went on and tell his friends. This has been a general believe among girls and for this reason they hesitate to have sex with a guy even when they want to.
7. Ladies believe that, They will be looked down upon if they openly proclaim it, and engage in it like guys do. This is one advantage we guys have. In this case, we can speak what we want more easily. Society expects women to be asexual and pious creatures whose job is to their husbands and bear.
8. Fear of pregnancy.
We don’t have to bear them for 9 months. Some, if not many men, simply run away on getting “that news”. Women cannot do that. They either HAVE TO have the child, or HAVE TO have an abortion.
9. Fear of being Used And Dump
Abundance and creepiness: When was the last time some girl approached you and flirted with you? 3 years ago? Well for every girl, that is most likely 3 minutes ago. In a day, a girl would be hit on most likely hundreds of times. Even the ones considered ugly are hit on. And most of them are creepy. (Imagine a creepy guy checking you out approaching you with only one intention in mind; to slide his hands down your pants).
Guys can easily and openly engage in sex, while girls have to think a thousand times before engaging in it. What others reasons you can think of why girls hesitate to have sex when they feel to? Comment below below
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