Here is the smallest thing a man can do to make his wife happy for long , long time
1. Women need some non sexual affection on a regular basis. Holding hands, hugging, cuddling, brushing your fingers through their hair, kissing that doesn't belong in a porn flick - these are all small things that take very little time or effort but make a huge impact on how they feel about themselves and how they feel about you. If you give them the non sexual affection they need, and they will be much more inclined to want sexual affection.
2. Do not give her any sort of constructive criticism. Because really, criticism is anything but constructive. Make sure that you tell her that you love her everyday. Just because she knows you do, it doesn't mean she doesn't want to hear it.
3. Do not keep a list on her about the sins that you think she committed against you which really might only have been her having a momentary lapse of some sort.
4. Respect her in public and in private. Do not call her names. Do not worship her, but support her. Be good to her, and it will pay in dividends over the years to come. Nothing melts the heart and quiets an aching soul better than do words of kindness
5. A wife wants to be respected as your equal. She wants the validation that comes with knowing that you listened and gave though to her words and potentially took them into account when making decisions. It shows respect for her intelligence and wisdom. It shows care for her feelings and emotional well being.
6. Tell your wife what she does that you appreciate. For five whole minutes, tell her what she does that makes you happy and feel appreciative and grateful. Five minutes is a long time to talk and you'll see that this can make a real positive impact on your wife's feelings
7. When she is cooking or doing something else while standing, go behind her, put your arms around her, and hold her. No hurry, no reason and then say into her ear " I love you "
8. Say something nice about her while around other people. And I don't mean " she has beautiful hair". I mean " I'm lucky that she is my wife because....."
9. Opening the car door for her is another one that is super simple and provides great return. Every girl wants to be treated like a lady. Holding the door for her when entering/exiting a building goes without saying.
10. Learn the art of saying "Awwwwe" in all the different tones as a response for everything she shares with you about herself.
Do the above to makes your wife happy daily.
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