DEALING WITH AN IRRESPONSIBLE HUSBAND

What should I do if my husband doesn't give me money to take care of me and the household's needs?

DEALING WITH AN IRRESPONSIBLE SPOUSE

In marriage, both the husband and wife have to be responsible to each other in every area that would make them to be happy with each other, not only in food preparation by the woman and money provision by the man.

Although, Tradition demands that Men should take care of their family( wife and children) and also provide the basic need for them so the family can boast of a healthy and brighter generation. But if in a case the man is an handicap or disable or lost his job due to one reason or the other and the woman is influential or rich, then she should provide.

A responsible husband must be at least 70% responsible for the family bills, while the wife should take the remaining 30%. If the woman is a full housewife but if she works and expect her man to always be responsible for all the bills, then that aint proper. She can always take care of the little bills in the house e.g. taking care of the garbage, purchasing of new bulbs to replace the bad ones etc. The bible does not say that the husband are to pay all the bills.

Researcher discovered that, few among women are generous when it comes to spending, I.e women are naturally stingy. They find it hard giving out in a relationship. Undiluted relationship team guess it's because they are used to guys giving them money so they see it as being foolish which aint true.

there is a saying "man and women are two faces of same coin".its means they have equal responsibilities of the family in maintaining physically mentally and socially to the family members.so in my thought man and women both should engage in a job and care after the childs.

But what should a woman do if her husband doesn't give her money to take care of herself and the household's needs?

Times are changing we now live in the 21st century where responsibilities are now shared between both partners. But if in a case the man fail to provide and irresponsible the woman should do the following

1. Once you’re married and you see your husband is financially irresponsible, it’s important to nip it in the bud as soon as possible. This means you’ll need to sit him down and be as open and honest as possible. Let it be known that being irresponsible will not be tolerated in your marriage.

2. Seeking the help of a financial advisor who understands your goals and your financial situation is a great way for you and your partner to confront the issues plaguing your marriage. An advisor can help you develop a budget and a plan to pay down any debts that need attention.

3. If you’ve done all these steps and your husband is still behaving irresponsibly, it’s important to protect yourself. You can begin by removing your y

husband name from the household bills, so that only you have access to them and ensure payment is received.

4. You give birth to the first child he doesn't take responsibility

Do not take in for the second.

These are my little advice for you. What do you think? Comment Below

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