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HOW TO TELL A GIRL YOU LIKE HER and KNOW IF SHE LIKE YOU TOO

How do I tell a girl I like her and tell if she likes me?


You're in love with her. You want her to know that you like her, and also want to know if she likes you too but you aren't sure how to tell her and how to find out.  "I like you," is a wonderful thing to say to someone – but these are also three very powerful words. Take a moment to step back from the situation and make sure that you do it right. Read on to learn how to say "I like you" to a girl and how you too can find out if she likes you before taking the move. 

1.  Put yourself in her shoes.

Do you think that this girl loves you back? Has she been in love before, or is this her first emotionally-serious relationship? Be aware that "I love you" can be a heavy phrase to drop onto a budding relationship. If she isn't ready to say the words back, then you might actually make things more complicated with your admission.Think about the way that she acts around you. You should be able to tell if she likes you by the way she looks at you and the amount of attention that she gives you. If you're going to tell her that you love her, she should at least have said that she likes you a lot.


2. Try starting with less serious words. 

Feelings are feelings, but you don't have to jump right into an "I like you." Tell her how much you like her, and use your words and actions to show her that she means a lot to you. 

Give her thoughtful compliments; buy or make her a personal gift; and show your passion through physical interactions.Say, "I want you to know that I care really deeply for you. You've brought so much happiness into my life, and I truly value that

"Say, "I like you a lot. You make me really happy." She'll know how you feel, but she won't have to worry about the serious implications of "love."Say that you love something about her, not that you love her. This can be a solid way to ease into the conversation. For instance, say, "I love the way you smile when you hear your favorite song," or "I love your eyes. They're absolutely captivating."

3. Wait for a special moment.

"I like you," is a serious thing to say, and it can completely change the dynamic of a relationship. Once you've decided to tell her that you like her, be on the lookout for intimate, meaningful moments. 

This might happen during a beautiful sunset after a perfect day together, or when "your song" comes on during a big school dance, or when you're both laughing together, wildly happy simply to be with one another. The moment might be sweepingly dramatic, or it might be wonderfully simple. Say it when you feel truly inspired.

Watch romantic scenes in movies and shows for inspiration. The "right moment" might feel powerful and almost cinematic – like the scene when the guy gets the girl, and they tell each other how they feel.


3. Don't say "I like you" for the first time while either of you is tipsy or otherwise intoxicated. In the midst of the post-coital endorphin rush, it is easy to say or agree to things that you don't mean.  Let the moment be simple, pure, and real.

4.  Choose a happy time rather than a sad time.

If you're really trying to say, "I like you," it may come out when it comes out, regardless of your planning. It may be best, however, to say the words when you're both in a great mood. A sincere "I like you" can certainly cheer a girl up when she's sad or feeling inadequate – but a first admission of love might be a bit much in one of these moments.

5. Look into her eyes when you say it. 

When the time feels right, lock eyes with her. You may experience a moment of absolute stillness – as though time has stopped, temporarily, and there is nothing that exists beyond you and her.

Eye contact signals that you are sincere. It also gives you an immediate indication of how she feels about what you're saying, and it should make the two of you feel more connected.

6. Say, "I like you." 

It's as simple as that. If you truly like her, then you don't need to explain yourself or add any frills. If you feel so inclined, however, it never hurts to wax poetic and qualify your love a bit. Above all, be honest and authentic. Only say as much as you feel impelled to say.

Consider explaining the story of how you came to love her. Say something true, and honest, and sweet. Make it unique, and make her feel special.The way you say the words is up to you. You can say it casually or earnestly, depending on your comfort level. Makes sure that she you are serious----- unless you want to give your an out. 

7. Don't stress too much.

If she likes you back, it won't really matter how you say it. If she doesn't like you back, then you've learned a valuable lesson about love. Either way: life is too short to bottle up these feelings, to let love lay in hiding when it could soar. Be brave, and be true, and follow your heart. It will be okay.If you need to calm your nerves, try taking deep breaths. Inhale, slowly, for as long as possible, and then gradually exhale in a measured flow. Focus only on the act of breathing: on the in-and-out of your breath.

8. Listen. 

Give her time. You have told her that you like her, but that doesn't necessarily mean that she's ready to say it back. Be patient and kind. Hope, but do not presume. Let her process your words and respond in her own time.

If she doesn't say it back right away, that's okay. She feels how she feels, and you feel how you feel. You may be hurt, but do not be angry. Respect her right to keep her own counsel.

No matter her response, be proud of yourself for telling her how you feel. It takes a lot of courage to tell someone that you love them, and mean it. Whatever happens: now she knows.

9. Kiss her. 

If she says "I love you" back: smile, hug her, kiss her, bed her. This is a special time. Ride the wave of loving emotion and take the experience to an even more magical level. No matter what happens, this is a moment in your life that you will remember for years to come.

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