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For any man created there is an appointed wo uman for him as a wife and likewise a woman. Marriage of a thing is of everlasting and the greatest mistake one could make in life is by marrying the wrong person. There is a perfect man for every woman as a husband's and a perfect woman for every man as a wife. So therefore, known your perfect match.
A fail marriage is as a result of Marrying the wrong person. If you are into courtship or dating relationship think twice before marrying. Don't be in hurry just because you want to get married. Below are things you should considered before marrying.
1. Do not marry if they don't have time to spend with you.
The proof of love is the desire to give and the proof of uncommon love is the investment of time. Don't marry if they are too busy to spend their time with you.
2. Do not marry if you don't have their attention.
Do not marry if they don't give a listening ear to you when talking, if they dont have a say on any matter you brought before them, don't marry.
3. Do not marry if your personal achievements do not create excitement in them
It doesn't matter if your personal achievements is great or not but if he does not celebrate with you neither shown a sign of excitement, don't marry.
4. Do not marry if you don't find passion in what they are doing.
You mate must be stirred by the same thing that stirs you. Does he/she loves what you do? If they don't find interests in what you do, don't marry.
5. Do not marry if you do not impress them.
If you don't impress them in whatever's things you do, don't marry
6. Do not marry if you do not see continuous improvement in the relationship.
Have you thought of what they have make you achieved, Positive and negative? How was it, when you haven't met them, Good or bad? If you ever regreted the relationship you are into with them don't marry.
7. Do not marry if they often not apologise when they offend you.
If they bother not to apologize when they are wrong, if they claimed right even when they are wrong and if they show no remorse concerning how bad they make you feel don't marry.
8. Do not marry if they are worldly.
Do not marry if they find excitement in ungodly things. I heard the wife of somebody say " I just love to club at night again " It wasn't a surprise to me when i heard the news about how she was caught with a man who is not her husband on bed. You cannot build a good future with someone who insists on fuelling their passion in the atmosphere of the ungodly.
9. Do not marry if they always put blamed on you before they heard your side of the matter.
If they always accuse you being wrongly before they heard your Side of the matter dont marry.
10. Do not marry if they don't have a job.
It is a sin not to work. I would not allow my daughter's to marry a man unwilling to work neither marry a woman who is unwilling to work.
11. Do not marry if they often have querrel with their parents.
Anyone who often querrel with his or her parents cannot make a peaceful home.
12. Do not marry if they are ingratitude.
Do not marry if they do not appreciate your impact in their life. There is nothing you will do they will value.
13. Do not marry if they are shame to introduce you to their friends.
This indicates that you dont worth them.
14. Do not marry if your personal conversation with them always ended in dispute or argument.
There can't be light and darkness.
15. Do not marry if they are unwilling to follow your advice and counsel.
Do not marry if she does not follow your advice and counsel and do not marry if he does not advice or counsel's you.
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16. Do not marry if you cannot trust them.
1. Do not marry if you cannot trust them with your weakness. Remember the story of samson in the bible.
2. Do not marry if you cannot trust them with your finances.
3. Do not marry if you cannot trust them with your greatest secrets.
4. Do not marry if you cannot trust them around your closest friends.
5. Do not marry if you cannot trust them in your absence.
The fact that people are getting married everyday does not mean you should rush into it. Most marriage don't last these days because partners failed to consider these 16 things.
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