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How To know when someone really loves you?
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There are a signs to read in order to figure out what is on the mind of your loved one. If you would like to know if a person truly loves you, you have to pay attention on how the person acts, what they say, and what they do when you are together. Though love may mean something different to every person, there are many ways to tell if a person truly loves you, just has a crush on you or just being momentarily infatuated with you.
1. See if the person can act naturally around you.
being in love means being completely open to the other person. If you find yourself seeing a whole different side that the person doesn't show the public, then that may be love. For instance,
if your partner is pretty serious or polite in public, but shows a more goofy and silly side when you're alone, then they are really opening up to you and loves you.
If the person shares their deepest emotions with you and is comfortable with it, then that could be love.
If the person is comfortable not looking perfect, tripping, or having food stuck in their teeth around you, that means they are okay if you see every side of them.
2. Gauge if the person is happy to be around you.
This should be true even during a bad day. If your loved one has had a very bad day but lights up when they see you, then that's a sign of love. If they are in love with you, then the sight of you or the sound of your voice is guaranteed to make them feel better — if only a little bit.
The next time they're grumpy or have a bad day, see how they react in your presence.
Notice if the person gives you googly eyes.
Notice if the person gives you googly eyes. Though this may be silly, check out your loved one's face the next time you see them. Do they look at you in a goofy, watery, silly and adorable way that can only be described as "googly-eyed"? You will know it when you see it. You won't get this look all the time — you can spot it in the morning, or randomly across the dinner table.
You may also be able to catch the person staring at you with the same expression.
3. See if they lIke to spend time with you.
according to one recent theory, someone who truly cares about you will use whatever time is left over to have some time together alone even when both of you may be tied up with work, family, and other commitments.
4. If he/she Trusts you
Research shows that in successful relationships, partners want to have a sense of knowing where their mates are at any given time. However, they don't have this wish because of worry that their partners might be up to something nefarious. A partner who doesn’t question where you are if you come home late or doesn’t snoop through your cell phone bills is showing the kind of trust that indicates true love.
5. Shows respect for your views.
If recent research on complementarity in relationships is true, it’s possible for you and your partner to be on completely opposite poles of the political spectrum and still remain happy together for years. The key feature is not what your beliefs are, though, but how open you can be to accepting your partner’s perspective as valid. Let’s say you’re an ardent feminist and your partner holds pre-1970s views about women. If he truly cares about you, he’ll at least listen to you when you express concern about women’s status in the workplace.
Once you are attracted to someone, you will notice that they look at you differently and smile a lot when you're around.
When some people do not talk with you, it does not mean they don't love you; it could be that they're shy.
Be careful not to mistake friendliness for flirting; you could end up getting hurt.
Never give much more space than needed. You may lose the person.
If your partner seems clingy, or worried about you all the time, ask yourself if it's because they care about you. Sometimes, they will only do this for you, not themselves.
That person may try to sacrifice the love between you, if you have expressed lack of interest, possible inconvenience or that you already have a significant other such as a girlfriend/boyfriend or spouse, unless you continually emphasis a commitment to no longer be in another relationship.
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