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Don’t wonder about some married men calling their wives “Mother” it’s normal and common
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The Revolt of Mother by Mary Freeman (1852-1930). The wife and husband in this story call each other this way. So it is common
It was also used in England and Ireland in the 1960s And it’s not seen as old-fashioned nowadays. Here are undiluted reasons why some married men call their wives “Mother”
Married men Calling their wife Mum, Mommy/Mother are all terms of endearment Just like women call their husbands Daddy or Papi
Calling her Mother/mum is a way married man resassures their wife’s that she is the only one and will remain so for ever.
It simply says married men uses to appreciates their wife more than they think And to give them sense of belonging.
It’s a way of making them feel relevant. A Married man that called their wife mother/mum only wants to confess how helpless he would have been without Her.
A married man called her wife woman/mom or mama or whatever, When he is in a kind of good or great mood, such as feeling so much excited on a particular project or something else such as getting a promotion or the wife give birth to his desired choice, and so on, and also it has to do with the act of african man and american as well, i have been able to hear many american saying hello ma'm or something like mama.
Also, Some married Men regard their wife as their second mother. Calling her “mother/mum” He only want to tells that She is the bearer of his child.
It could also be that, if the wife has gotten kids for him, The man is just following the kids to show respect. If they're talking about their wife to their kids it's totally reasonable for a husband to call the mother of their children "mother" or "mum" or whatever.
Presumably he didn't when first married. He addressed her this way in front of their children, and then were in the habit of it, even when children were not present.
So i think any one can really feel great and cool among you ma'm s if your man call you such a name. Its showing a great honour to you and also showing he loves you more than you ever thought.
Your man is showing it to you that he is a great african man, and he also understand the word africa and thats why he is cheering you up all time with the word mama/mother
It’s sort-of logical, in that when referring to our other half (or another family member) when speaking to one of our children, we automatically use a term that describes the child’s relationship to that person, not our own, e.g. “Go and ask Dad/Grandma/Auntie Jane”
Married men do called their wife mother/mum if he's probably feeling safe/secure and lovingly cared in her arms. He feels protected with her -- and that's a great thing!
He feels a sense of trust in your presence... and is exhibiting a somewhat submissive quality. Not a sexual one.
And In the other hand, If they're doing it and their wife isn't a mother, then it's probably poking fun at them, if their wife is telling them to be careful, or clean something up (or basically make any request that a mother might make of a child).
It's a term of adoration, very much like when a girl calls her boyfriend Daddy.
He likely feels loved around you, safe. A lot of guys like the Maternal sort of roles their partner takes with them (Myself included).
But If you're uncomfortable with him calling you that, you should probably just tell him that. You could always try to talk what could be a suitable term that makes you both feel happy with.
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