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#1 – Women Notice Your FACE
No debates here. If you keep your face in its best form – it means you’re taking great care of yourself.
Do you need a super handsome face? Nope! Not all of us are born with a Hollywood movie star type of face. If women only wanted that, there’d be a huge surplus of single men in this planet!
What you really need are good grooming habits. You want to show the ladies your well-maintained facial hair (whether it’s a short stubble or full-grown beard).
Or maybe you prefer a clean-shaven look – but you ought to make sure there are no post-shave bumps or red marks plaguing your face.
And then there’s the skin itself. Some of the “manly” guys out there still choose not to take skincare seriously. They wait for an “outbreak” or pain issue that requires them to seek treatment.
But it’s every man’s responsibility to find the right lotion, cleanser or anti-aging cream to keep his skin healthy.
#2 – Your SMILE
A captivating smile is quite an asset. It’s like a “welcome” sign that you’re waving from afar in a woman’s direction
Combine that smile with proper eye contact and a confident posture – and you’re already on a roll when it comes to impressing her.
But hold on. Your smile can also be a hindrance IF the teeth are noticeably dirty. Or worse… discolored!
#3 – Your Silhouette
Here the term silhouette refers to the outline of your body PLUS your clothing. And women are particularly drawn to a very masculine silhouette – with a built-up chest, a lean torso, and strong shoulders
#4 – Your Wardrobe
No matter what you wear, women will pull out some sort of judgment or assumption from it. You must also make an effort to pick clothes that send out POSITIVE messages – best describing your status, your lifestyle and personality.
Women seeking a long-term partner are attracted to men who can be good providers – so dressing more “mature” helps if you’re looking to settle down.
#5 – Your Style DETAILS
Sure. You may initially impress with a well-fitted blazer and slacks. But if those are the only elements you work on – you won’t get far.
Any man can maneuver his way to finding good shirts, jackets, and pants. But the ladies know that not all guys actually pay attention to everything else
#6 – Your Greeting and Manners
Picture yourself as a contestant onThe Bachelorette. You step out of the limo on Day 1 with all the guys. Your bachelorette is waiting by the mansion door.
You’re all on an even playing field appearance-wise, so can you do to stand out right away
Exactly – nail the greeting. That sets the tone for everything else that follows. Offer a firm handshake, make eye contact, smile and give your full attention.
You want her to believe you’re invested in courting her (not just there for TV exposure). Those few seconds of acknowledging her presence can mean the difference between staying or being sent home first.
Now chances are you’re not going to be on that show. But it’s the same principle in real life: if you don’t greet a woman properly for the first time, you’ve already dug yourself a hole.
Forget how people tend to stare at their phones or get distracted easily.Bad manners are never acceptable. If you show a disregard for others’ feelings or basic courtesy, women will quickly pick up on it and think you’re a loose cannon.
#7 – Your HANDS
What good is a handshake if your hands seem like you’ve been digging through garbage? Always be mindful about washing your hands. Otherwise – you can come off as “uneducated” or “not raised properly” (making your parents look bad).
But let’s not forget about dry hands with cracked skin! It’s another major turn-off caused by a lack of natural oil (which keeps the skin of your hands supple). So apply a good amount of hand lotion or cream every now and then. And another thing. Do NOT clench your fist in front of a woman (as if you’re about to punch someone)! You’re probably stronger than her – so that just makes you appear more intimidating
Or maybe you prefer a clean-shaven look – but you ought to make sure there are no post-shave bumps or red marks plaguing your face.
And then there’s the skin itself. Some of the “manly” guys out there still choose not to take skincare seriously. They wait for an “outbreak” or pain issue that requires them to seek treatment.
But it’s every man’s responsibility to find the right lotion, cleanser or anti-aging cream to keep his skin healthy.
#2 – Your SMILE
A captivating smile is quite an asset. It’s like a “welcome” sign that you’re waving from afar in a woman’s direction
Combine that smile with proper eye contact and a confident posture – and you’re already on a roll when it comes to impressing her.
But hold on. Your smile can also be a hindrance IF the teeth are noticeably dirty. Or worse… discolored!
#3 – Your Silhouette
Here the term silhouette refers to the outline of your body PLUS your clothing. And women are particularly drawn to a very masculine silhouette – with a built-up chest, a lean torso, and strong shoulders
#4 – Your Wardrobe
No matter what you wear, women will pull out some sort of judgment or assumption from it. You must also make an effort to pick clothes that send out POSITIVE messages – best describing your status, your lifestyle and personality.
Women seeking a long-term partner are attracted to men who can be good providers – so dressing more “mature” helps if you’re looking to settle down.
#5 – Your Style DETAILS
Sure. You may initially impress with a well-fitted blazer and slacks. But if those are the only elements you work on – you won’t get far.
Any man can maneuver his way to finding good shirts, jackets, and pants. But the ladies know that not all guys actually pay attention to everything else
#6 – Your Greeting and Manners
Picture yourself as a contestant onThe Bachelorette. You step out of the limo on Day 1 with all the guys. Your bachelorette is waiting by the mansion door.
You’re all on an even playing field appearance-wise, so can you do to stand out right away
Exactly – nail the greeting. That sets the tone for everything else that follows. Offer a firm handshake, make eye contact, smile and give your full attention.
You want her to believe you’re invested in courting her (not just there for TV exposure). Those few seconds of acknowledging her presence can mean the difference between staying or being sent home first.
Now chances are you’re not going to be on that show. But it’s the same principle in real life: if you don’t greet a woman properly for the first time, you’ve already dug yourself a hole.
Forget how people tend to stare at their phones or get distracted easily.Bad manners are never acceptable. If you show a disregard for others’ feelings or basic courtesy, women will quickly pick up on it and think you’re a loose cannon.
#7 – Your HANDS
What good is a handshake if your hands seem like you’ve been digging through garbage? Always be mindful about washing your hands. Otherwise – you can come off as “uneducated” or “not raised properly” (making your parents look bad).
But let’s not forget about dry hands with cracked skin! It’s another major turn-off caused by a lack of natural oil (which keeps the skin of your hands supple). So apply a good amount of hand lotion or cream every now and then. And another thing. Do NOT clench your fist in front of a woman (as if you’re about to punch someone)! You’re probably stronger than her – so that just makes you appear more intimidating
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