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Guys Weakness (8 Common Weaknesses Men Have) ----- We all have our strengths and weaknesses. The belief that only women should be vulnerable and emotional is balderdash.Men are humans and have emotions and they are vulnerable too.
When the weakness of men being figure out and temper with by a girl, some men would rather keep the secret, nor ask for help and end up committing suicide because they did not open themselves to others even when they are having issues so as not to appear vulnerable
Every guy's have a weakness. A man's weaknes, is that aspect of men life that women uses to manipulate them.
It is that angle of men life that is vulnerable. women actually used this to make their men summissive.
THIS IS HOW IT'S WORK: when a girl discover a guy weakness and took advantage of it, IT might makes the guy swallow every opinion without synchronisation. When a girl is on men weak point, the guy always afriad to air his opinion on any issues because of fear of rejection or condemnation. At this point, he just want to fix into certain standard-good In other words he is caged.
Today, i will let you know guy’s weakness towards girl. I’ve put together in summary, seven weakness of men and how women use them that most men do not realize.
1. A hot body & a beautiful appearance
Some men are biologically drawn to beautiful women. Their bodies, their softer personalities, etc, they go beyond length to do anything especially when their girl threaten the relationship.
This one's go far sponsoring their girlfriend to university while his siblings have not paid their waec.
they give their girlfriend monthly
upkeep but will tell their siblings he has not receive salary for 3 month.
They are generally known as a zombie to his girlfriend just like how zombies are to jubril from Sudan.
2. Sex
sex is the greatest men's weakness.
It is the best way to manipulate men and women know it very well. After all it is the bed ( and not just the bedroom), where the most important decisions are made.
When it comes to sex, Men don"t really use their brains to think. They have a single- track mind and women know how to exploit this fact.
ladies, Go about putting their men in a situation where they feel uncomfortable in terms of their sexual ideas or intent because they know that sex is men weakness
For example, the girl may use the following phrase: “If you don’t buy me an iPhone i will not offer sex to you’.
I remember back then in school, a course mate was telling me how she got her Samsung tab. She said after going out a few times with the man, he took her to a plaza and got her a tab for almost 100k. She then proudly indicated when she got the tab, she decided to sleep with him. You get the drift? She rewarded the man with sexx.
This remains the most powerful weapon today. Women (even in marriages) have painted intimacy as what a man has to earn. So, you will see the average guy running pillar to post just to get into a girl’s pants. Yet, it is the same act that they will both enjoy! If you as a man do not learn to turn down the advances of a woman from time to time, you will still remain under her power. There is something about a man who refused to be manipulated into sexx. The woman will immediately see him as a conquest she must win. Guys, learn to say “no” too. You won’t die!
3. Being the one to ask her out:
It is like a tradition, especially in Africa that a man should ask a woman out. Have you observed that once a man says he wants a relationship with a woman, she suddenly gains an influence over him? Well, there is little that can be done here. However, some guys have found their way around it. How?
They simply ensure that she is way into them too that she starts to show not just green light, but all the colors of the rainbow. Guys who do not understand this are those still committed to chasing a woman for weeks stretching into months. Or better still, quit begging a woman for a relationship. They often have more to gain than give in the relationship anyway.
4. Showing weakness on purpose:
There is an effect on a man that comes when a woman shows him her weakness. Once she shows her seeming inability to do something, what naturally comes to your mind as a guy? To help her out, isn’t it? For instance, if she was in the sun trying to get a taxi, you may feel inclined to offer her a ride. But have you ever done that for a guy? Okay, let’s rephrase the question: have you even ever shown concern to a guy in such a situation? Of course not! But what does the society call such preferential acts? Being a gentleman.
This is the reason why some guys will buy a lady a phone of 70k while their brother is using torchlight. And women have discovered this! Have you seen a woman showing her weakness to her fellow woman? Hardly! But she shows it to a guy. Why? Because she knows he will start to feel like it is his responsibility to do something about it.
5. Crying over an issue
Does this need much explanation? She knows that if you truly love her, you can’t bear to see her cry. So, when logic and all forms of persuasion prove abortive, this is the last bet. And for most guys, when they see the tears, their reasoning just goes to sleep. The point is, most of these tears are not genuine. She is simply using a weapon in her armory to achieve her goal.
6. Stirring jealousy
She may not be getting attention from you or she wants you to take notice of her. To get quick attention from you, she decides to flirt with other guys in your presence. The aim is to get you jealous, put you on your toes and make you run to her. Most women believe flirting with other guys will make their men see them as valuable and desirable by others. You may get angry for a while (yes, they know), but eventually, your girl probably knows you will start working yourself hard to keep her.
7. Petting and flattery:
This is one of the most rampant, even online. This is what makes a guy to pounce on his fellow guy online simply because a female referred to him as “baby”. Seriously, guys need to grow past this! The craze to hear sweet things from a woman has made many go to surprising lengths. Beware when she suddenly is all nice to you. Beware when she flatters you. You have no idea what is about to hit you. If you do, you probably won’t be smiling sheepishly.
8. Playing the guilt card:
This is reverse psychology. What happens here is that she will blame you for something to get you to try defending yourself and then getting you to do what she blamed you about. Let’s say she accused you of not loving her as a reason why you did not get her an ipad. What is the motive? To get you to explain that you love her and promise to get her an ipad in the end. You know the implication? She just stripped you of the right to complain that you will not buy her the phone. Or else, you risk proving that you don’t love her. My best advice to guys in this situation: do nothing, say nothing. Just let the accusation hang and be quiet. if must say something, tell her that she do not value the relationship that is why she weigh the level of love using material things.
Remember, this strategy is always a trap.
Women can easily spot when a fellow woman like them is using a guy’s head. Guys need to learn all these manipulations and know to come off it. Don't let Women know your weak point. hide it and pretend over it
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