10 Ways A Wife Should Love Her Husband

How should a wife love her husband is very complicated, even if you have a near-perfect spouse. To be a lovely wife, you have to be able to communicate effectively, to keep your romance alive, and to be your spouse's best friend while maintaining your own identity. If you want to know how to do it, just follow these steps.

1. Meet your spouse's needs without compromising your own.

If they need more sex, then open your mind to the possibilities. If they need time with friends or time to pursue a hobby, then don't be possessive. They'll be happier, and they'll be grateful to you for your respect. You should meet their needs, or at least some of them, without doing anything that feels uncomfortable to you.

If they want more sex, then consider having more sex with them, or think about why it doesn't appeal to you. But do not force yourself to do something you're not comfortable with just for their benefit. Instead, talk to them about it so they understand how you're feeling, and together you can decide on something you're both comfortable with.

If he's missing his time out with the boys, let him have a boy's night and have a girl's night of your own.

If they want time to pursue their hobbies, let them take the time. They'll grow as a person from doing their own thing, and this will benefit your relationship.

2. Make your home a haven: The world can be a tough place. When your husband walks in the door, he needs to breathe a sigh of relief. He’s home. Think of how you greet your husband. Does he see the back of your head as you type furiously on the computer or do you look him in the eyes and say, “Honey I’m so glad you’re home”? Make your home a place where your husband feels welcome.

3. Respect your man’s needs: What need does your husband have that perhaps you have discounted? It may be sex, quality time, the cookies you used to bake him, or going to ball games together. Don’t get defensive when your husband voices a need. Listen instead and then act positively to meet that need the best you can.

4. Let your man lead: The idea of submission has many women up in arms. That does not need to be the case. The New Testament speaks clearly in three passages that we wives are to submit to our husbands as unto the Lord (Ephesians 5:22 , Colossians 3:18 1 Peter 3:1 ). This doesn’t mean you become a door mat. What it does mean is that your respect your husband’s role as the leader of the home. After you’ve weighed in on a topic, the final decision belongs to your man.

5. Take care of your appearance

When you were dating, your husband found your body type attractive. He was hooked on your looks. Now that you’re married, it’s important that he still finds you attractive. When you take time and effort to watch your weight and dress nicely for your spouse, it communicates volumes. I care about you. You’re still the one for me. I want you to approach me.

6. Smile

You’ve probably heard the saying “Happy wife, happy life.” Most, if not all, husbands would certainly agree to that! When a wife is unhappy, everyone in the household knows. Some days you may not feel like smiling around the house, but go ahead and fake it at first. Put that plastic smile on and most likely, your natural beautiful smile will emerge shortly after. Your smile communicates to your man, “I’m happy to be married to you. I am thankful for a great life with you.”

7. Speak kindly

If someone were to repeat all the things you say to your husband, would it be “news that’s fit to print?” Are you heaping on praise and encouragement, or criticism and sarcasm? Treasure your husband’s efforts to please you and provide for your family. Don’t trash what he does either to his face or behind his back. Your words matter more to him than anyone else’s.

8. Accept your mutual mistakes.

If you want to be accepting as a wife, then you have to be able to accept your spouse's mistakes and to sincerely respect their apologies for doing something wrong (as long as it doesn't compromise you in a big way). If you hold a grudge too long, you won't be able to appreciate the good things about your spouse, so it's best to accept their apologies, talk about how they won't upset you again in this way, and move forward instead of harboring resentment about the past.

Accept your own mistakes, too. Don't be so focused on being the perfect wife that you can't admit when you're wrong.

Admitting when you're wrong will help both of you grow as a couple.

9. Don't try to change your spouse.

Accept them as they are and let them know that you would never want them to change in any way for you. They have so much to offer you if only you give them the space to be themselves. They are a growing individual, just like you are. Love them for who they are, and they'll love you unconditionally in return.

Accept that you and your spouse are not the same people. They won't always see the world the same way that you do, and that's a good thing. Being with someone who isn't exactly like you will make your relationship richer.

There's a difference between asking your spouse to clean up more around the house and making them become a hiking fanatic when they hate the outdoors. You can ask them to improve in different areas, but you can't force them to like all of the same things you do.

10. Be appreciative.

Learn to be appreciative. Say “thank you” and acknowledge the little things your partner does. You may feel it, but unless they’re a mind reader (and chances are they’re not), they won’t know it unless you show it through your words or actions.

Tell them ‘I love you’ throughout the day. If you’re worried about sounding like a broken recorder, try fun ways of doing it. Text her when something makes you happy, or even if it’s just to share a funny picture. Slip little notes into his jean pocket or her purse. Let them know how happy and loved they make you feel.

Try to do at least one nice thing for your partner every day. Let your imagination go wild with this- plan a surprise lunch date or give a relaxing massage after a long day. Or it could be as simple as getting his favourite candy or her ice cream when you’re at the store to let them know you’re thinking of them.

Conclusion

Pray, eat and work on your home together. Even when choosing furniture, colors to paint, renovations, or other sales and purchases. This creates a special atmosphere appreciated by both of you.

Never exhibit abusive behaviors toward your spouse. Over 800,000 men per year, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control, are battered by their wives. Never allow your anger toward your spouse to get out of control. In the same vein, never tolerate a spouse who abuses you

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